1. It’s scary how, when you do start talking, a lot of people are more familiar with domestic violence than you ever could have imagined. 

    Keep on breaking the silence. 


  2. When young women are sexually assaulted, we question their pasts and critique their clothing choices, yet rarely ask their attackers to simply be accountable for having no self-control, and no respect for the humanity of the girls they’ve violated.

    When middle school girls post half–naked photos of themselves on Instagram, we vilify and ostracize them as cheap and easy, while ignoring the dozens of young men who mindlessly vote their approval each time, who feed the insecurity, and who perpetuate each degrading act with the click of a mouse.

    When high school girls get jobs at chain restaurants, which require them to expose their body parts to strangers over trays of nachos, we bemoan their lack of humility and class, yet never question the thousands of men who fill these eateries every day; many with daughters the same age as the ones they ogle.

    When women embarrassingly writhe on poles for a few sweaty dollar bills, in dimly lit bars ironically called “Gentlemen’s Clubs”, we heap insults and judgement on them, yet let the many married men who pay both the dancers and the mortgage each month, come and go without blemish or critique.

    Sooner or later, we need to stop letting boys be boys, and we need to challenge them to be men.

    Sooner or later, we need to pull them out of their perpetual adolescence and into adulthood, and ask them to evenly carry the weight of sexual standards.

    Sooner or later, we need to show our young men that the they can actually raise the moral temperature in sexual situations, not reflect them.


    - John Pavlovitz, The Blurred Lines of Real Manhood (Robin Thicke, I’m Looking In Your Direction) [x] (via supernatasha)

    i like this quote except for that part about “embarrassingly writhe on poles” because wtf that word choice seems condescending and shaming 

    (via z33zy)

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  3. How to educate Men in the art of Peace. 


  4. Awwww yeh!

    We all need a truth lasso. 

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  5. You’ve got to go through a lot of flawed ideas to find one that might work. And if you send your brain negative feedback by frowning when you think of a flawed idea, instead of realizing that idea-suggesting is good behavior by your brain to be encouraged, pretty soon you won’t think of any ideas at all.
    — From some random Harry Potter blog/book I read on a magical, mystery internet ride…

  6. candiesandwords:


    Yes, yes it is. 

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